Psychology tag might suit it better. What fairy tales never tell you is the iridescence you find also drops into flat, satin and gloss, and it's just a matter of time, but some part of it will survive the daily tear and wear and seep through your armor and you'll find there's truly nothing can compare. Until then, stay hopeful.
8.0 Where people don't change, they don't have any epiphanies. They struggle and frustrated, and nothing is resolved. More a reflection of the real world.